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I’m writing this with anger and grief. I hope that my writing this post would be able to help me clarify things once and for all.
There has been a series of negative happenings resolving around my personal life as of late, and I am sad to see how my friends have helped fan the fire, eventually leading to undesirable misunderstandings.
People have accused me of hiding my love life and of telling people things I am not supposed to.
1. Confidentiality Between Friends
First of all, tension has grown strong between me and a friend, thanks to Mr. Backstabber.
I’m a person with firm policy and I know what I’m doing. If you think what you have told me got spilled to people against your consent, please come forward and talk me into it; don’t accuse me of things I did not do. Your secret is 99.9% safe with me when you indicate so.
I know Mr. Backstabber. Do not use things you accidentally (and coincidentally) know to go against the degree of trust my friend has on me. You have serious mental issue and time will expose your true colours — I will not.
2. Don’t Dramatize My Personal Life
Second of all, as a common human trait I do understand how people tend to gossip when it comes to things they do not usually see.
That is what happened to me (fortunately less so now) when I was spotted in close proximity with a girl several times.
I do not mind if you see it and eventually gossip about it. But I am furious when you tell me what to do in a negative manner.
Note that this is my personal life. By right to confirm with you my current status or now, it is my choice. But as a good friend who do not mind sharing or complicate things, I have told others again and again that I will announce to them the good news (aka will not hide) if things go on smoothly.
They did not believe me.
They continue to spread everything with aggregation and even pretend to tell me what to do when they are actually trying to dig information out of me.
Kindly watch your steps. When I did not step on you, why step on mine?
– In Chinese –
当我提笔写此文章时我的心情是感到多么的愤怒与忧伤。我希望可通过此文章为我澄清所有不愉快的事。
近日生活中发生了一连串与我有关联的副面新闻。我是多么的感到悲伤当目见身旁的友人不但没给予任何的协助，反之还火上加油制造出更多更多的误解。
身边所有的友人都指控我隐瞒着我的感情生活。无辜的我更是被误解了我把她的秘密给告知天下。
１。友情之间的秘密
最初，我内心深感万万分的感动不禁的得向笑里藏刀先生致千万分的谢意。因为他，我与另一位友人之间产生了无法抵抗及解决的磨擦。
我是个坚决策略的人，我更是清楚明了自己正做些什么。若你认为我没通过你的允许之下而轻易的把你的秘密告知了大家，请你与我面对面的把此事给说个明白；然而请别轻易的控诉我从未做过的事物。我可向你９９。９％的保证，你之前向我表明的秘密都处于安全状况。
我是最清楚的，笑里藏刀先生。请别在他人面前装扮为无意的把你个人所知道的咨询反来毁谤我友人对我的信任。
２。勿当他人私生活导演
次要，我是明了大家都会对于从未目见的是是非非而感非常的兴趣。这乃是人性性格。
然而此不利的是是非非竟发生在我的身上（幸巧近来对我不利的是非已逐渐减少了）。是非的起源来自之前好几次我都被身边众友人看见我与另一位女性友人来得特别的要好。
我不介意更不在乎我是否被大家目击我和她相处在一起以及此是非等等。反之让我觉得十分狂怒的是当大家讽刺及批评我做了一些我没做的事。
请注意，这时我个人的生活。在此我郑重的与大家说明我身处于现有的生活状况及阶层，都是我个人的选择。然而身为你们知己的我何尝也不是和你们一样希望可时时刻刻与你们分享与分担呢？？！我曾多次的向他们说明，我会向大家宣布好消息及无从隐瞒若事情进展得顺利。
然而友人选择了不信任我。
反之的把所有的事情都给宽大及扩张化。友人更是伪装的告知我该如何把事情该给办妥，其实他们还只不过想试探我以获取更多有关的资料。
请回头遥望你曾走过的足迹吧！我何曾介入骚扰你们的私生活，你们又何必干涉我的生活呢？
